The Predators Among Us

All of our hearts went out to the Idaho childrendisappear each year into the sordid world of the
who were kidnapped, molested, and one probablychild sex slave.What triggers men (by far the
killed, by a previously convicted sex offender.Whyprimary offenders) to subvert a normally
are there so many sexual predators?Clearly, inreciprocal and mutually enjoyable activity into an
the more distant past, sexual crimes wereact of violence and rage? For thousands of years
committed but the victims had no recourse and(with the exception of isolated matriarchal
accepted their fate with only impotent protest.anomalies), men have been at the top of the
Slaves, concubines, war captives, indenturedpecking order. Being male assured a certain
servants, and lowly peasants all suffereddegree of personal power no matter what their
frequently at the hands and genitals of powerfuleconomic or social level.With the advent and
men. Prostitutes have always silently borne moregrowth of the women's movement, the pecking
than their fair share of violence and depravity.order changed. In a world where brute strength
Domestic violence, spousal rape, and incest haveand ancient taboo had little to do with success,
traditionally been a family secret, unpunished in thepower and social position became determined by
ages when a wife and children had status only ascharacteristics that belonged equally well to either
chattels of the family leader.Even discounting thegender: intelligence, education, motivation, flexibility,
power of the media to bring every incident intoand the ability to communicate.Men who
the limelight, it still intuitively feels as if thepossessed such skills were perfectly happy to
perverts amongst us are multiplying faster thancompete and cooperate with their female cohorts.
the general population. America has always been aIt was those men lacking the ability to compete
violent nation, wresting her unparalleled naturalwho had the furthest to fall. They lost the
resources out of the wilderness with dynamite,self-assurance and ego strength that had
pickaxe, and drill. Not too many decades ago,previously been their right by the random
hand guns or rifles were carried by every man inarrangement of chromosomes. Without the
the West. Later came the machine guns of thepersonal competence to rise above the lowest link
mobsters and the Saturday night specials of theof the cultural chain, their rage at their loss
gang bangers and drug dealers.But why thedetonated. Unable to express themselves verbally,
present pervasiveness of sexual violence?Onethey mutely lashed out with their old reliable
might point to a variety of possible causes. Therecommodity, physical strength, against those who
is the explosion of increasingly sadisticwere most defenseless: women and young
pornography that has emerged from thechildren.Experts have long asserted that rape is
backroom peepshows and darkened adult movienot a sexual offense but an act of violence. We
theaters to flash into our living rooms through thehave pushed the inept and primitive among us
Internet portals. Everything from coeds with Webagainst the wall and they have come back, flailing
Cams, groping grandmas, and unbelievablyand slashing, to make someone pay for their pain.
over-endowed naked bodies, to child porn,Our civilized conduct and collective success have
animal-human sexual contact, bondage andlabeled us all as potential victims, vulnerable and
(questionably real) snuff films flow onto ourinsecure as we warily watch and wait for an
desktops, uninvited and aggressive.We haveeventual attack.Virginia Bola is a licensed clinical
heard, repeatedly, from the convicted sexpsychologist with deep interests in Social
offenders themselves, that their earliest catalystPsychology and politics. She has performed
into the fantasies that they eventually acted out,therapeutic services for more than 20 years and
was pornography. In Asia, pornography has farhas studied the effects of cultural forces and
more limited exposure, yet thousands of childrenemployment on the individual.